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September, 2007
To Our Darling Little Girl
Welcome to
our family! We are exceedingly thankful that
God has seen fit to entrust your life to us.
We are also humbled; raising a child is an immense
responsibility and we know that in our own strength
and wisdom it would be an impossible undertaking.
But God knows what He is doing and has sovereignly
chosen to place you in our family. We pray that He
will enable us to be good stewards of that trust.
It is important to know and remember that this
family is a Christian one. You will be
baptized right away—and we believe that brings you
into a covenant with Christ. Growing up
knowing God is a wonderful blessing. It is
also a big responsibility, because “To whom much is
given, much will be required.” Our prayer for
you, right from the beginning, is that God will draw
your heart to Him and that you will be a faithful
servant in His kingdom.
As we write
this letter, we have not yet seen your face.
We have felt your movements and eagerly imagined
your growth as we watch your mother’s belly expand.
Though we can’t see you, you have certainly been in
our thoughts as we prepare for your entrance into
our family, and one of the biggest considerations
has been what name to give you. We believe
names are important. As God was forming the
universe, He was also giving names to His creation.
After He made Adam, God told him to “be fruitful
and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have
dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of
the air, and over every living thing that moves on
the earth.” Naming the animals was the
first way that Adam began to take dominion. “And
whatever Adam called each living creature, that was
its name.” In literature, characters are
shaped by the names that authors give them.
God is the Great Author and has given us the
privilege of naming you. We know you will be
formed by the names we decide on, so we have named
you after people whose footsteps you can be proud to
follow in, whose stories you can live up to.
Your first
name is Lucy, a character from C. S. Lewis’s
Chronicles of Narnia—a series you will come to know
well. She possesses a number of qualities we
admire: she’s truthful, even in the face of mockery;
sensible (it is a very silly thing to shut one’s
self up in a wardrobe); warm-hearted and caring for
others; and courageous, even when it means venturing
into an unknown, icy land armed only with borrowed
fur coats. But Lucy is only one personality
from the world of Narnia, and it is because of our
love for Narnia that we’ve chosen this name.
By reading these stories, we enter that world along
with the children and learn the lessons that they
learn: what true nobility is, what godly authority
looks like, how God’s grace works, and many others.
Most importantly, we learn to know and love the lion
king Aslan. When Lucy stood for the last time
in Narnia, she was desolated at the idea of never
seeing Aslan again. When asked if he was in
our world too, Aslan responded, “I am, but there I
have another name. You must learn to know me
by that name. This was the very reason why you
were brought to Narnia, that by knowing me here for
a little, you may know me better there.” We
hope that by giving you the name of Lucy, you too
will come to know Aslan a little and by knowing him,
be drawn closer to Christ, whom he truly represents.
Your second
name is Jael, a woman who lived in Israel during the
times of the judges. For twenty years, the
children of Israel had been oppressed by Jabin, king
of Canaan. When Deborah called Barak to obey
God’s command to deploy troops against Sisera (the
commander of Jabin’s army), Barak said he would go
only if she came with him. And Deborah
replied, "I will surely go with you; nevertheless
there will be no glory for you in the journey you
are taking, for the LORD will sell Sisera into the
hand of a woman.” On the day of the battle,
the Lord used Barak to rout the mighty army of
Sisera, but the Canaanite general fled away on foot
to the tent of Jael. Deborah commemorates what
happens next in a song of praise:
“Most blessed among women is
Jael, the wife of Heber the Kenite;
blessed is she among women in tents.
He asked for water, she gave milk; she brought out
cream in a lordly bowl.
She stretched her hand to the tent peg, her right
hand to the workmen's hammer;
she pounded Sisera, she pierced his head, she split
and struck through his temple.
At her feet he sank, he fell, he lay still; at her
feet he sank, he fell;
where he sank, there he fell dead….
Thus let all Your enemies perish, O Lord!
But let those who love Him be like the sun when it
comes out in full strength.”
We certainly don’t expect that God will call you
to drive a tent peg through anyone’s head, but we
want your life to be characterized by heroic acts.
These acts will probably not be as glorious as
Jael’s and it’s likely that there won’t be a song
sung in commemoration of them. But we as
Christians are called to imitate Christ, who
exemplified true heroism by laying down His life
sacrificially for us. From babyhood and
learning how to obey, to childhood days of learning
to work, to womanly maturity and learning to give
your life for God, husband, and children, may all
your deeds be done in a spirit of true nobility and
valor.
We give you
the third name, Valiant, because we want you to
possess that character attribute. When Lucy became
queen in Narnia, her own people called her “Queen
Lucy the Valiant.” But you cannot be truly valiant
without the help of God. In Prince Caspian,
there is a scene in which Aslan asks Lucy to do a
hard task for him, one she is not strong enough to
complete on her own. In her weakness, she
buries her head in the safety of his mane and as she
does so, feels lion-strength going into her.
As Lucy took refuge with Aslan and found strength,
so may you find shelter with God and may His
strength flow to you so that He can say to you as
Aslan said to Lucy, “Now you are a lioness and now
all Narnia will be renewed.”
When we bring
you forward at church to be baptized and the pastor
asks, “What is the Christian name of this child?” we
will reply, “Lucy Jael Valiant.” The name Lucy
means “Light Bringer,” and we pray that you will
“Let your light so shine before men, that they may
see your good works and glorify your Father in
heaven.” (Matthew 5:16) But you must not think that
you are light on your own. Remember Ephesians
5:8 which says, “You were once darkness, but now you
are light in the Lord. Walk as children of
light.” May you be a “Light Bringer,” valiant
as Jael, who will shine like the sun when it comes
out in full strength.
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